He Got Cut ( Part II)

    He continued on to say that I did not have to worry about them. For sheer entertainment I continued to listen. He says that he has had his children. He goes on to say that he wanted to be “real” and if we talked we would have sex (though he used the more vulgar term). He  says, “ I don’t want to have a slip up and then you say  I’m pregnant  and then I say what do you want to do  and then I ask you what do you want to do  and then you say you don’t know and then I ask if you want to raise the baby with me  and  you say we don’t now one another that well”. He continues to babble for a few more seconds and I may have tuned him out and then he concludes with. “ So to avoid all of that, I had a vasectomy in 2010. WHAT!?   I  got up and I left. That was the most hilarious thing that has  ever happened at a surprise party.  When I left I laughed  and continued to laugh. I laughed on my way to the bathroom , laughed while I was in there ,  while I was fixing my hair and makeup , while washing my hands . When I came back I told my friend ans he is very lucky I did not know that many people that well.  I would have told EVERYONE !  Seriously , such entertainment is meant to be shared hence, me sharing to the world.

   I couldn’t  believe his nerve and tactless  banter. First of all ( yes  I’m going there ) ,  who told him that it was a good idea to give that much self-disclosure to a complete and total stranger?   For me  by him telling me that so soon , it meant that he wanted to have unprotected sex with me  no strings attached and soon.   To that I say Gross-Gross Mister.    Though I am young and  I am no angel ,  he was too open with his intentions for me and I was amused  because he thought this was going to work and disgusted.  Sign number one that he is  crazy. 

Secondly, who told you that I was giving you anything other than some time? -Arrogance.  Nothing wrong with a confident man but he  just KNEW  he was going to experience  what treasures Victoria’s secret shrouds . That is a turn off and again I say – gross . I have a problem with men assuming that I  am just going to give it up just because.  That bothers me to no end.

Lastly , how did  he know that I did not want any children. Which I do . Besides the fact that he had 2 kids which eliminated him  totally , he went on to obliterate his chances at even having a date with me by assuming that his procedure would  attract me to him .  At the end of this  story ,  all I can say is in the end he just didn’t make it- he got cut.